Here’s a few examples of some common sexist phrases that you may hear, that you can challenge with your peers:
“Boys will be boys.”
Nothing about misogyny is inevitable.
Suggesting that sexist behaviour from men and boys is natural serves no one and harms everyone, regardless of gender. We shouldn’t excuse or normalise it. Boys and men are capable of change—we must end this toxic culture and treat girls and women with respect.
“She's asking for it dressed like that.”
Too often, women and girls are blamed for the sexual assault and crimes committed against them. Everything from the clothes they wear, to the fact that they are out at night time is scrutinised.
Let’s be clear: the only person responsible for sexual assault is the perpetrator. Don’t play into this culture of victim blaming. Call it out.
“My ex-girlfriend is crazy.”
Saying a woman is “crazy” is a way of discrediting them and undermining their reactions or feelings.
It can also be a form of controlling behaviour because it questions someone’s reality and influences others into perceiving them as unreliable or unreasonable.
Let’s leave this tired stereotype behind.
“She’s such a drama queen.”
Calling a woman "dramatic" is highly stigmatising.
Men who express emotion, frustration or voice their concerns are unlikely to face the same criticism. We need to end these double standards.